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Emotionally Resilient Living

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Ask anyone about “resilience” and they’ll likely say it’s the ability to “bounce back” from a crisis. But resilience isn’t something that you store in a closet for a rainy day; it is a powerhouse of inner strength comprised of key behaviors that have the potential to improve your life on a daily basis.

Today, after more than six decades of ongoing studies, researchers have considerably broadened their perspective to include the many ways in which the associated skills and behaviors of psychological resilience can benefit us on a daily basis.

Specifically, highly resilient people are said to have a greater sense of control over the quality of their own life, tend to be healthier and live longer, are more successful in school and work, are happier in relationships and are less prone to depression.

Consider that every day we face challenges that require a balanced outlook and stamina … commitment overload, financial strain, relationship challenges, striving to achieve goals, and for some, health issues, divorce, passing of a loved one, or loss of a job. Even joyous occasions such as marriage and pregnancy include a whole range of stressors and how we handle them either enhances or detracts from these life-changing events.

Never believe anyone who says they will empower you. Others may inspire and even motivate you, but there is only one person who can empower you and that is YOU.

This is why …

You are the only one who can truly know what will make you happy and what you need to help you grow into the strong and confident person you were meant to be.

Maybe you’re in the process of moving through a major life change, or you feel there are missing pieces in your life and aren’t sure how to figure out what they are. It could be that you have a pretty good handle on your life now, but you’d like to strengthen certain areas like setting healthy boundaries, building self-confidence, or learning to let go of the guilt that inevitably comes with setting aside time for self-care.

These are all needs that you can find “no fluff” strategies for at Emotionally Resilient Living.

If you’re new here it’s worth emphasizing that my approach to developing emotional resilience is about growing forward rather than the popular notion of bouncing back.

The reality is that you can never go back to the person you once were because every experience changes you in some way. And really, if you think about it, why would you even want to?

Why do the work to stand up to life’s challenges only to end up comfortably settled back into where you started? In fact, it may well be that the way things were led to the problem in the first place!

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I BELIEVE IN YOU

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The first and arguably most important step to begin taking charge of your life is to believe that you have the power and authority to do so. Whether you have an obstacle to overcome, a goal you’re striving to achieve, or you simply long to feel more confident, you are far more likely to do whatever it takes to grow beyond your circumstances if you truly believe in yourself.

Admittedly, sometimes that’s much easier said than done, but I believe in you because I believe in the power within each of us to create a life we love. So, if you’re running a little short on self-belief right now, why not join our community and let’s do this together!

A little about me …Marquita Herald

My name is Marquita (mar-kee-ta), Herald and I’m a personal development and resilience guide, author, publisher, and the founder and chief evangelist of Emotionally Resilient Living. My professional background includes a successful career in international sales and marketing, a decade as an award-winning life and small business coach, followed by the past five years specializing in coaching to develop psychological resilience.

I work hard to stay on top of the latest research on resilience and positive psychology, and occasionally share personal stories in articles and my books, but for now, if you’d like to learn more about my background and quirky bits and pieces I invite you to check out the About Me page.

If this is your first time here, I understand it’s hard to know where to start, so I’ve created this page to provide you with a sort of unofficial directory to help you find the best stuff at Emotionally Resilient Living.

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discover-resilient-livingThere is one new article published each week at Emotionally Resilient Living. In addition to the latest post delivered to your inbox, subscribers receive the Resilient Living Weekly Newsletter with tips, inspiration, and member only content, as well as discounts on new books and courses.

As a special bonus, members also receive a free “Welcome” gift.

Discover Resilient Living. This isn’t just teaser or preview, but a highly targeted and actionable digital guide designed to help you begin creating a roadmap that will put you firmly in the driver’s seat of your life journey.

 

 

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Let’s Connect

Facebook fan? I’ve recently launched a brand new page – Emotionally Resilient Living. In addition to the latest articles, I’ll be sharing inspiring stories of resilience, everyday heroes, motivation and valuable tips.

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Google Plus? I post often here and my most popular Collections include, Resilient Living, It’s Your Time Now, Self-Care, and Journaling for Personal Growth. My newest Collections are the Business of Being an Author and Making a Difference.

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I love great visuals, and collect as well as write original inspirational quotations, so of course, Pinterest is one of my favorite social sites. I have created boards for each of my books as well as topics associated with the stories I tell here.

Marquita Herald on Pinterest

Yep, I’m also on Twitter, although to be honest I’m less active here than the other channels simply because I find it a noisy, chaotic place and I prefer to get personal with my readers.

Resources

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To get right to the heart of key topics covered here I encourage you to start by checking out the pages here in the Reference Library. Each page covers a key topic associated with developing resilience and includes links to relevant articles to learn more about the subject. There are more articles in the works for the Library and community members receive a courtesy update.

  • An Introduction to the Art of Resilient Living
  • The Relationship Between Confidence and Resilience
  • Discover Your Truth Through Self-Awareness
  • Master Your Emotions
  • What it Means to Own Your Life!

The Articles

To read the latest articles simply click on the Articles tab in the menu bar above, and if you’d like to browse past articles by date or category you can visit the Collections and browse every article published since ERL was launched in 2014 by title and date or by category.

A Few Favorites

There are currently around 200 articles published on ERL. I hate to pick favorites and besides, not to sound too cliche, but I’ve put a bit of myself into each article, but there are just a few articles that especially stand out.

 Celebrate the day on which you choose to embrace the power you have to create your own life experience. It is an amazing journey and you alone will be responsible for the quality of it.

 

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  1. Amaka Adindu
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    says:

    Thank you Marquita. Great post well put together. I enjoy visiting you blog. There is always a take away. Keep writing it feel natural.

  2. Paula
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    Awe you are a great writer and your book looks awesome. I will keep it under my hat as I have a daughter that might benefit from it. But presently she doesn’t read much.
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  3. Edward Thorpe
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    Hi Marquita,

    Love your tag line ‘Each morning we’re born again. What we do today is what matters most’ so much, that I tweeted it with a link back to this interesting site.

    I’ve admired you since finding you through our association in PAC. But until today I hadn’t really backgrounded you – liking you even more!

    “Never believe anyone who says they will empower you. Others may inspire and even motivate you, but there is only one person who can empower you and that is YOU”… Say ‘Amen’!
    Edward
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  4. K. Lee Banks
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    Thank you for your thought-provoking words. I definitely need to build up some emotional resilience in my life! I appreciate you sharing.
    K. Lee Banks recently posted…Gratitude Challenge – November 19 – Thankful for Freedom from WorryMy Profile

  5. Simply beautiful. We have known one another for some time now but yet I feel that in many ways I just got to know you. I adore the directory and seeing the flow of what you highlight as the top not to miss areas though I feel that I do not want to miss anything at all 🙂
    Dr. Elise Cohen Ho recently posted…Is Daddy Your Super Hero?My Profile

  6. Just wonderful! Your writing come across with such calm and power. Thank you, you absolutely inspire me. I will continue to read more of your work.

  7. Reji
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    Hi Marquita,
    I am visiting your blog for the first time and glad to see your great work. Actually, I landed up here from the PAC blog rotator. Hoping to come back again to have a detailed look.
    Have a great time blogging.
    Best regards
    Reji Stephenson

  8. Mayank Bhatt says:

    Wonderful article. You are absolutely right if one should have believe in oneself, he or she can achieve everything that they desire in their life. Thanks for beautiful tips about life. People who have lost hope and about to quit will definitely get inspire by reading your thoughts
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  9. Joe says:

    “..learning to let go of the INEVITABLE guilt that comes with setting aside time for self-care.” Yes, that is a big one, particularly when it comes from others in our lives. ( but that sounds like an excuse Marquita would not like, so please disregard )
    Thanks for the encouragement. I saw at least 3 must-reads from your “non top-10 top-10”.
    Joe

  10. Chery Schmidt
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    says:

    Hello Marty! It is so good to be back here again. I love what you have done here with your blog my friend! Keep Up The Great Work. Looking forward to learning more from you.. Thanks
    Chery :))

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